Vanessa from Madrid, Spain, 47 y.o.

Aim of acquaintance

I want to meet a man whose energy is in tune with mine. A relationship for me is a union of two adults who are not afraid of intimacy.

About me

Sometimes life in Madrid seems like an endless movement - the noise of the streets, the aroma of coffee from small cafes, a suitcase that is always ready for a new journey. I live an active life, working in the field of economics and I love the feeling when numbers add up to history and plans turn into deeds. In my free time I change my office shoes for ski boots or simply disappear into a book that can pull me into another world even more strongly than any flight. I am often called -that girl who knows how to keep her balance - both on the slopes and in life. I love dogs, cats, music, seafood dinners and people who know how to be sincere. I have many countries marked on the map and even more dreams waiting for their moment - from Lapland to Bora Bora. And yet, despite all the movement around, there is one thing that really leaves a feeling of incompleteness - the absence of the man with whom you want to build daily little things and big plans. That is why I am here, on this dating site, and openly talk about the fact that I am looking for a relationship. Not a perfect fairy tale, but a real life together - with warmth, laughter, support and a road that you want to travel together.

About my partner

I am not looking for a relationship that requires endless proof or complicated explanations. I need a man with whom everything feels right from the very beginning: in the timbre of his voice, in the way he talks about himself, in the way he behaves in small things. When the inner feeling of ,yes, appears without a fight. I am impressed by men who do not hide behind coldness. Those who speak directly, keep their word and know that attention is not weakness, but a normal manifestation of interest. I appreciate a quiet strength that does not need to be demonstrated. When a man does not prove anything on purpose, and his character is felt in the way he treats people and situations. The relationship I want is a union of two independent people. Not dependence, not a game of cat and mouse, but a mutual agreement to move side by side. Where each person preserves their own life, but at the same time opens the door for the other person. Where respect doesn't have to beg, and where warm gestures don't become something rare. It was with this mood that I decided to come here. On this dating site, I want to find a man who is ready for a relationship that has stability, honesty, and a desire to create something real. I'm not interested in casual acquaintances or stories without a sequel. I want a partner who is not afraid of getting closer and doesn't run away from responsibility for his words. I'm not looking for drama and I don't promise fairy tales. But I'm ready for a relationship in which both have space for themselves and a desire to be for each other. I want a man next to me, next to whom there are no doubts - neither about his intentions, nor about my feelings. If you are also looking for a connection that is based on real things, and not on chance, then perhaps our meeting here is not accidental.