Albert Einstein once said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting different results. So here I am trying a new way to find a husband and lover. I am considerate, compassionate, warm and fun. Sometimes the wall flower and other times the life and soul of the party. Like most people I am normally in between. I am social and have a good sense of the mood and atmosphere of an occasion and act accordingly to fit in. I am a woman who adapts and can meet the demands of her surroundings whether it be the feminine sophistication for a night at the opera or as the social butterfly at a corporate gathering, or the relaxed and casual times with friends.
Calm, considerate, compassionate and understanding is a good beginning. If you smoke or drink I do not mind as long as it is not to excess. Funny but not stupid. Adventurous but not so much as to made bad judgment with too much risk. Reasonably well educated. Fairly fit but not a man who lives in the gym instead of at home. Of course a man who knows how to satisfy a woman is a bonus. A man who likes to stay home just as much as going out, who is romantic at the right times but not so much it becomes so common it is taken for granted. Special times are special because they are not an every day occurrence. There is a beauty in routine and spontaneity if both are of the right proportions.