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Dating chat

How to have a great chat with girls online

Online communication has long been one of the most popular ways to meet a girl. A lot of beauties would like to find an interesting guy on the web. If you like chatting with girls online, you probably asked yourself, how to start communication with a lady via dating chat or a social network.
 
What can be easier than to sit down, start a chat, ask for a phone number, and go on a date with a girl? When communicating online, you don’t have to worry about how you look or be afraid to approach a girl. You don’t need to think about anything. In this article, we’ll explain how to start a conversation with a girl online.
 
How to start chatting online
 
In online dating, standard phrases about girl’s smile or appearance just don’t work because ladies on dating sites receive a lot of such messages and may simply not notice yours. Such messages as: "Hi! How are you doing," women find annoying.
 
The uniqueness of your first phrase guarantees that the girl will pay attention to you and want to get to know you better. But try not to overcomplicate the meaning of the first message; otherwise, you’ll simply not be understood.
 
Before joining a chat on a dating website, look through your potential companion’s profile and find out more about her friends, interests, hobbies, and favorite places she visits. When searching, try to find something that might be equally interesting for both of you, like a hobby or a favorite place. For example, after learning that a girl goes to swimming pool or sports club, you can tell her that you also like such kinds of sports activities. This way you can keep the conversation going.
 
If you have doubts concerning your companion being a scammer from a dating agency, try dating video chat to be sure that the girl you choose is real.
 
Don’t tell everything about yourself at once, but sharing some personal information is still needed to interest the girl in the dialogue with you. When talking about yourself, be sure to ask your new companion some questions about her life, thoughts, and experiences from time to time.
 
When starting a conversation with a girl via an online dating chat, you shouldn’t lie about yourself or your character and exaggerate your financial status. Such a lie makes it almost impossible to get your relationships into a real world, where your deception will immediately become apparent.
 
It doesn’t matter whether she becomes a friend or your partner for life, if you like the girl, you should tell her about it. More importantly, don’t forget that women like compliments, but too much flattering will only do harm. The main thing for girls is sincerity; with it, your conversation will be long and enjoyable.
 
Five proven tips for starting a chat on dating sites
 
1) Ask a question
 
Ask at least one question; this will help continue chatting. Without any questions, there will be no conversation at all.
 
2) Talk about common interests
 
Discuss common interests; it's simple and will help learn more about each other.
 
3) Give her a compliment (but not about her looks)
 
And don’t use the words, like "sexy" or "hot." Such words, as "cool" and "fantastic" will be more suitable.
 
4) Study girls’ profiles on online dating chat sites
 
Pay attention to her profile; usually, it reflects her personality in real life. If she likes doing funny stuff, be funny too; if she’s more like a philosophical person, try to be the same.
 
5) Say something pleasant about her profile that caught your attention
 
This will show that you wrote this message only to her, and not to dozens of other girls.
 
In conclusion
 
Carefully study the profile of a girl with whom you want to start a conversation; study her interests and hobbies.
 
The first message should be original and not just: "Hi, how are you?" She sees hundreds of such messages every day. Stand out from the crowd, let yourself be noticed!
 
Don’t tell all about yourself at once, but share some information. Thus you’ll keep her interested in communication. If there is a pause, tell some funny stories from your life.
 
The best thing about any online chat and dating site is that you can tell anything you want. But don’t act like someone you’re not. If you don’t want to talk about something, just don’t write about it, but avoid lies. Your deception will be revealed when you start meeting in real life.