Major Differences between Russian and American Women


Russian women became kind of a dream for a lot of western men. Nowadays a lot of men from Europe and America are in search of a significant other from Russia. But when you ask men why they are into Russian girls, the most typical answer would be "They are beautiful". No analysis of when this Russian-mania started on the dating market. No more or less realistic reasoning.

So, the reason behind men from around the globe going mad about Russian women is the beauty of those Slavic females? While the vast majority of people are going to be satisfied with an explanation like that, it seems too far-fetched. Like there are no beautiful women in Europe or America? The actual explanation is way more complicated.

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Why are western men so obsessed with the idea of dating Russian girls? To answer this question properly, we need to delve into history a little bit. We need to figure out when this idea of Russian dating first arrived. Actually, there were too waves of western men's interest in Russian women. And when you evaluate the reasons behind those two waves of interest, you will realize that the role or Russian beauty is less significant than most of the western men thing.

The first wave of interest was caused by mere curiosity because Russian women were something exotic for western men. Some men wanted to marry Russian women as a charity act, as the fall of the Iron Curtain disclosed former Soviet republics in the most lamentable state of economy.

The second wave of interest came much later when men got a deeper understanding of Russian vs American cultural peculiarities. It turned out that there is a significant difference between Russian and American women.

So, if you're interested in women from Russia, you should learn every aspect of Russian girls vs American girls.

Emancipation

The first aspect of Russian women vs American women is the impact of feminism. We all know the most common complaint that western men have about their women. Women in the West are overly emancipated and there are two different ways how men approach it. Half of the men are eager to embrace feminism, while the other half feels quite embarrassed about it. If feminism is reigning in the west for over half a century, things are way different in Russia. Despite all of the feminist movements in the 19th century, Russian girls are a far cry from their western counterparts in terms of emancipation.

American women are emancipated thus they are more career- rather than family-oriented. Women building a successful career are a usual thing in the United States and other western countries. There is an increasing number of families in which a woman takes the role of the main family's supplier, while a man does the housekeeping and babysitting.

The reason why feminism had a lesser impact on Russian women is rooted in their patriarchal upbringing. Girls are taught that the man is the main figure in their life, and their main goal is to become a good wife for her husband.

Still, Russian women have experienced what can be called 'forced emancipation'. According to the official data, over 20 million of Soviet people had been killed during World War II, with a vast majority of them being men. As a result, women were forced to take care of their families on their own. So, a Russian woman became something of a universal soldier, who is able to build her own career and remain a great mother. Of course, this aspect appeals to western men. A woman who is able to provide for herself, but doesn't see it as her main goal in life, and thus is much more interested in family and values her husband.

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Dating is another aspect of Russian culture vs American culture. Emancipated and self-sufficient American women often pick up guys without waiting for them to make the first move. Thus, it is much easier to approach them. Still, men who have more traditional view on dating consider this kind of change in relationship not as benefit, but as a declining state of tradition values. When it comes to Russian women dating, things are way too different. Women in Russia are known for their traditional views on dating. If you want to meet a Russian girl in real life after chatting with her, be ready that it won't be an easy and short road. On average, it takes a Russian girl a few months of online dating to understand that she really likes you.

Things are not going to develop faster after that. First of all, if you want to make a good impression on her, you need to arrange your first date on your own. To do it in the best way, you need to understand what she likes and what kind of the first date she would enjoy.

Russian women can be initiators of dating, but generally with Russian men, who are lazy and who still thinks that women owe them the first step (the result of the WWII, when women started fighting over men's interest).

When it comes to western men, Russian women are never initiators of dating, they wait till men will make the first step. So, if you are into traditional dating where men have to make the first step, Russian girls is the right choice.

Gift and flowers are also important when you're into Russian girls dating. For Russian women gifts are the expression of your attitude towards them, thus any flower or any kind of gift won't do. If you want to impress a Russian woman, you need to meet her expectations.

While articles on Russian dating are full of advices on what gifts Russian women expect from you, things are not that simple, as they seem. What matters is the personality of your Russian girlfriend. That's why you need to pay close attention to your conversations. If you are attentive enough, you can easily figure out what kind of flowers she likes. What kind of gift suits her the best. While one girl thinks that an expensive gift is the actual proof of your love, while another girl thinks that that mere attention is enough to see that she is important to you and that you care for her.

Attitude to Family

Emancipation took over the western world, thus child-free movements are common there. Western women who are obsessed with their careers often point out that they don't want to have babies because they just won't have enough time to take care of them. Still, some women are successful in combining both family and career.

The family remains the top priority for Russian women. Due to the patriarchal upbringing, woman's second goal after becoming a good wife is to become a good mother.

A family without children is an incomplete family for Russian women. Russian woman feels like a freak if she can't deliver a baby.

Also, Russian culture is known for self-sacrifice. In women, this aspect turned into complete commitment and devotion to their families and their children. That's why Russian women are considered to be great wives and mothers.

Appearance

The United States are known for the cult of own comfort so American women rarely try to impress their boyfriends by how they look. A typical American girl goes out with a minimal makeup wearing casual clothes. This is mainly because the inner world and life achievements mean for American women more than their look or outfit.

While Russian women also consider inner world more valuable than appearance, their appearance means a lot for them. There's a Russian proverb which can be translated as “Met by clothes, seen off by ”. In real life, it is hard to make the first impression by your intellect because at first you will be examined visually.russian beuty

A typical Russian girl won't leave her home without a makeup. Russian women spend a lot of time taking care of their appearance. Russian women like fashionable clothes. Moreover, Russian ladies wear expensive dresses and high-heeled shoes on a daily basis. In Russia, you can often see women in expensive outfits on the public transport. Such attitude to appearance mixed with Russian girls' natural attractiveness makes western men crazy about them.

Education and Religious Belief

Education in the American culture is not as compulsory as in Russian culture. Education was kind of prestige during the Soviet times, and for the vast majority of people graduating from the university was the main goal in life. The vast majority of women in Russia are educated, having bachelor’s or master’s degree. Over 80% of Russian school graduates enter the university.

Religion is one of a few things that Americans and Russians have in common as religion is highly important for both of the nations. The vast majority of Russians are orthodox Christians. Although the religion is important for Russian women, because of the self-sacrifice aspect of their culture, they are flexible. In terms of marriage, she won't insist on converting her husband to the Russian Orthodox Church. Because any Russian woman is ready to leave everything for her man, she would be eager to convert to his faith, be it another denomination of Christianity or a different religion such as Islam or Judaism.

So, as you can see beauty is one of the reasons why western men are interested in Russian women, but the role of Russian beauty is a little bit exaggerated. Beauty can work as the primal attraction, but other qualities of Russian women mean much more to western men. They are women who are able to handle their careers, while being busy with housekeeping and raising children, and still remain beautiful. So, if you date a Russian girl, you are that close to get a perfect wife and a perfect mother for your future children.

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Steven
Great information I learn a lot about Russian women
19.11.2018 08:38

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