What Russian Women Want in Relationships?

Russian women can turn out to be the most challenging things to understand and when it comes to their thoughts on relationships, it can actually drive men crazy! So what do Russian women want in relationships? It is a mystery, you may assume many things about Russia itself, but Russian women are something else. Reading their thoughts might give us the right answer but since that is not possible, we'll stick to the common methods to understand Russian girls better. My long-lasting relationships with three Russian women have taught me few lessons and I would like to share them with everyone who really wants to know what women think when it comes to relationships.

Sex, which men often give a lot of priority to, is not the first choice for women when it comes to relationships. All Russian women want to stay intellectually and emotionally connected to their partners. Some people think that Russian girls are cold and angry, but they are not. As soon as you get to know each other better, you will understand how cute and nice Russian girls are. The thing you need is patience. They want to communicate and are eager to dig deeper into the hearts of their partners.

Actually, Russian girls, as men often tend to think, are really not that complicated and they are always ready to work on relationships. You do not have to guess what a Russian girl thinks about you - she will tell you herself. If she likes you, you will understand it without any problem. You won’t have to be reading between the lines with them. They want to be respected and loved for what they are and not just be men's trophies. Russian women want to play an important role in men's lives, that's why to win her heart you need to open yours firstly. And if you do, in return, they will become a big part of your life, a great friend, on whom you will always be able to rely on. They are loyal and they will value loyalty from you.

To answer the question about women's attitude to relationships, always stay clear and true in your intentions towards a woman. Be ready to make commitments as well. Women usually open their hearts to men who listen to and care for them, sex comes much later in their priority list. Tell her about the huge role that honesty plays in your life. That you despise all these wretched hypocrites who lie at every turn. That this is one of the most important values in your life. Believe me, such words are the first step on your way to her heart. She will understand that you can be trusted, that she can share something intimate with you, that you have certain life principles that are also very important to her. You cannot win her heart for a long by giving diamond rings and pearl necklaces because she wants more than a physical representation of a man’s feeling. What they want is a reliable person, someone who is strong enough in the direst of situations. Someone, who will always be there to talk to.

Russian girls always want your time and they want to know whether you are really serious about putting the efforts to make the relationship work. To establish a relationship is one thing and to make it work for the rest of your life is another. Believe me, men don't think too much on relationships whereas women plan for the lifetime. You have to think all your steps over as each of them is measured by a woman as for its impact on the long-term relationships. Men often tend to ignore this and only think of the short term goals and achievements. She wants to hear from you that you value her a lot. Your mutual relationship is the main priority of your life and you respect her choices and her decisions. She will find your support in anything she does. And if she fails, you are the one to help her stand up and get stronger.

Russian women want their men to show respect towards them and to give them constant attention. They hate being treated as just sex objects and often end relationships where nothing but the physical bonding matters. Only a kind and attentive man may be lucky to win a Russian woman's heart. Believe me, Russian women are ready to continue relationships with such men even when hard times come. They will always be there by your side, when you need them. Mutual help, especially when it’s the darkest of times, and the ability to rely on someone are their main values in a relationship.

Russian brides prefer romantic partners, so men should try to walk the extra mile in keeping the romantic flame burning in relationships. Sometimes love fizzles out of relationships because while dating, men start to take women for granted. This is the point when all the troubles start and women begin to lose interest to their partners. Remember, even if you are a deeply stubborn cynic, she must think that love is the most important feeling in your life. And the most convenient way to express these feelings is to be romantic, try your best in showing your dedication in this relationship. Convince her, that for you, love is a very important word, and not just an empty sound.

Relationships are not about you but about your woman as well, so it is very important to tell her about your life goals and her important role in them. She wants to achieve these goals together with you and earn the respect she deserves during this process. There are women who are very touchy about getting married as soon as they feel the time came, but men often ignore this. Take it as an axiom: any girl wants to get married. Even if now she is busy with building her carrier, and 2 cats are waiting for her at home. She has to know, that you will marry her, when the time is right.

You must let her know that for you, a serious relationship should always lead to marriage. Perhaps it is after such conversations that the topic of marriage will not rise up for a very long time. She will know, that you really take it seriously. Do not ignore “marriage” questions and if you really have problems with this issue then it is better to explain your concerns. Every woman will understand this, so you will not have to always run away.

I might sound a little preachy but this is how I felt while living with Russian women I loved. It took me some time to figure out what they want in relationships. Always remember, that your conclusions may drastically differ from mine. We are all unique individuals, and there is no way we can predict the way things are going to go. It can get challenging and frustrating, but do not give up easily if you really love her – you will certainly make it if your intentions are honest.