You have met online. Be ready for the fact that your relationships have to stand the test of distance. Separation can be long or not very long, but for some time you may have to live in two countries. How to keep long distance relationship and don't lose your feelings? How to make it deep and real when you have never seen each other before? Let's try to find out.
Some people meet each other at a distance and maintain relationships with the help of virtual communication. Others meet due to online dating services and make their first steps toward each other when thousand kilometres separate them. Or people are forced to live far from each other, for example, if the job involves frequent travel. In this case long distance communication also has a very special meaning. The main feature of the relationship at a distance that you do not have physical contact. All the advantages and disadvantages of this type of relationship follow from here.
1. A lack of physical contact. Most part of information about the world we get from non-verbal funds - facial expressions, gestures, touch. In relationships at a distance all this things are not available. Because of this misunderstanding may occur.
2. Jealousy. When people are a long time away from each other, they may have a feeling of jealousy. Especially if one of the partners gives a reason to this. In relationships at a distance you can not fully control the movement or behavior of another person. Often this can lead to breakup.
3. Not all people can express their feelings in words. It is necessary for majority to see the eyes of beloved man, hold his hand. Sometimes understanding can arise only because of this.
1. Daily routine does not spoil your relationship. Often household stuff can break a love. And during the rare meetings sweethearts tend to not pay attention to such small and unimportant things.
2. Ability to save individuality. When people live side-by-side for a long time, they begin to dissolve in each other and have a very strong influence. If you meet less frequently, you have the opportunity to save your personality.
1. Keep a sense of community. Find something in common in how you spend your free time to not deteriorate your relationship because of distance. Speaking via phone use “your” words, make plans for the future and always remember why have you fell in love with each other. You must keep a sense that you are the one whole thing.
2. Refresh the image of the beloved in your memory oftener, reexamine photos of each other in social networks. Remember all moments which you spent together, all conversations and video chats. It helps to compensate a lack of physical contact.
3. Communicate as often as possible. Using all available means of communication. Talk about the little things, about your feelings, funny cases. Thus, the communication between you will not be interrupted.
It can be concluded that long distance relationship is possible. Just do not pay attention to the little things - they spoil our life. Relationship at a distance is able to strengthen the best feelings. The most basic thing – trust between close people and understanding of each other.