While the word “terrorism” seems to be the first that comes to mind when you hear about Muslims, but that's not what Islam is all about. First of all, Islam has around one billion of believers, and more and more people seem to convert to this religion. Despite a vast majority of terrorist claim to be Muslims, Islam itself is far from being the religion of hate and murder.
Every year a lot of people who weren't born Muslim join this religion because they consider this religion to be more tolerant than Christianity or because they were non-believers per se and found Islam more suitable to their palate.
But why western people are so eager to practice the oriental religion, which is definitely more strict than Buddhism? The answer lies in strict gender roles for men and women. That's why women who find themselves uncomfortable with western ideals of career-oriented female prefer to become Muslim. That's why western men who are looking for a wife and a mother for the children often turn to Muslim women. And if you're one of those men, this guide is for you.
Expressing Her Interest
While in western countries where women are allowed much more than in eastern countries flirting is the best way to show your affection for both men and women. Flirting goes hand in hand with tongue-in-cheek humour, thus often it is hard to tell, whether your flirting goes in the right direction or one of you is just joking. That's why western dating is much harder than Muslim dating and needs much more efforts than it's eastern counterpart.
Muslim women are not allowed to flirt. So, how to understand if the Muslim girl likes you or not? Actually, in Muslim society everything is way more simple. The indication of interest are very subtle and rooted more in body language than in oral speech. No, it has nothing to do with belly dancing. You want a family oriented woman, remember? In Muslim society, you can understand that the girl likes you if she stays in one room with you alone. If she wears traditional Muslim clothes, she would express her interest in you by letting you see her face and her hands. Strange, but still, much simpler than all that flirting stuff.
Being a Wife
If you like when men and women have different gender roles than dating a Muslim woman is the right choice. In the Muslim society men work and supply the family, while women must handle the housekeeping and the kids. It's not your typical western woman who would say that she earns enough money for both of you, and that she loves her job and probably you should handle the housekeeping and babysitting. Forget about this variant of life if you're planing to marry a Muslim girl.
The husband does all the male things. For example, if you're dating a Muslim girl and she has a car, you should drive whenever you meet. You should drive the car even if she's the one who has the driving license.
Another important thing about Muslim women as wives is their loyalty. Muslim women are rarely infidel. Of course you can assume it's because of the laws in Muslim countries. But, the Muslim world is far wider than just the Arabic states. For example Turkey is far more democratic.
You must consider your own level of fidelity, if you don't want to face some outrageous consequences. You, definitely heard that stories about some husband in Arabic country who had killed his unfaithful wife and then was freed by the court, because murder of the infidel is not a murder at all. Well, this rule works both ways. A wife who had killed her husband for being unfaithful will be also face no restraining orders as well.
Muslim women consider making their husbands happy in bed a job. So, whenever you want she will give it to you in the best possible way. Of course at the time of harems, women were thought how to bring pleasure to their sultan in the most peculiar ways, but that times are long gone. Moreover, nobody wants to have more than two wives in Arabic states nowadays. It became too expensive and Arabic polygamy turned into money-based relationship.
No matter what kind of present you gave to one wife, you should not forget about bringing a gift to your other wife. Otherwise, it all ends in court. Feeling lucky for not being an Arabic husband of two wives?
Nobody forbids you to dream about many girls with knowledge of pleasing a sultan, but you'll unlikely find a girl with that knowledge nowadays. Still, if you want your sex life to be improved, she will learn whatever you want only to please you.
One thing you must remember, when sleeping with a Muslim girl, Muslim women are against contraceptives. Abortion is also not in favour in Islam, so either you should use condoms or be prepared to become a father.
After reading about the benefits of Muslim women you definitely consider dating a Muslim girl. But, everything is much more complicated here. Don't try to look for Muslim dating rules on the Internet, you'll not find such a manual, simply because it doesn't exist. Muslims are not allowed to date. You've just learned that? Well, that is the answer to the question why families marry their children before the kids learned how to speak. Simply, because Muslims are not allowed to date.
But, don't go burring Muslim women dating idea, so soon. If all Muslim lived according to that rules they probably wouldn't have survived up till now. If you're in love with a Muslim girl living in the western country, probably there won't be any problem, as they try to assimilate. What you can do is to learn what country she is from. If she's from Turkey or Indonesia, everything is okay. They don't mind dating at all.
If there's no Muslim girl around you, but you dream about one, you always have the Internet. A lot of Muslim girls are dating online. There are even Muslim dating sites for Muslims to get to know each other and for western people who would like to date Muslims. So, without further ado you can create an account on some Muslim dating site and start chatting with the girl you like. One thing you should remember – your intentions must be serious.