What Kind of Man Do Russian Girls Like?

Russian women have a set of requirements for their potential partner as all women have. Many foreigners wonder what kind of guy can make a perfect match for a beautiful and smart Russian girl. Every Russian girl is looking for an ideal man. Although they understand that there is nothing ideal in this world, they keep dreaming that one day they will meet their type. Good news for you is that the characteristics that they endow their ideal husband with do not differ much from the universal image of an ideal partner. What qualities do Russian women appreciate in men? Why do so many men are unsuccessful in achieving their love and what secrets do the fortune ones hold? Here are some traits that Russian women value in men the most.

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Confidence. Russian girls consider confident men to be the sexiest. Since many Russian ladies lack confidence, they need a man who will be their opposite. Indeed, confidence is a very important trait of man’s character. A man is perfectly built, he dresses well and watches himself, but he won’t have a crowd of girls standing on his doorstep if he is not confident in himself. Confidence also attracts women on a subconscious level: in nature, every female tends go for the one, who everyone considers to be the leader. It is associated with maturity, experience, good communication skills, and mental strength. It’s difficult not to fall for a man who is sure about each of his steps and who knows what he is worth. However, one should distinguish between confidence and groundless overconfidence. Self-assured men turn Russian girls off because these ladies can’t stand arrogance.

It will take a long time in order to develop self-confidence. You need to start with finding and solving problems. Often these are the problems that have to do with your appearance, like excess weight or something more internal, like the simple inability to speak to girls. Yet it isn’t impossible and if you manage to do that, the heart of any Russian girl will be yours.

Intelligence. One of the reasons why Russian girls can’t find a perfect match in Russia is that being well-educated they want a compatible partner by their side. Therefore, intelligence is on their list of ideal man’s characteristics. It doesn’t mean that they are looking for a professor or scholar. Yet good manners, sharp mind and positive thinking make any man better. It should be interesting to talk to him on any topic, even in situations, when he doesn’t know anything about the topic. There are shy men and the first impression about them is always rather lackluster. A cunning, witty and self-confident man mind will create a much better impression than the one who is extremely insecure. If a man can keep up a conversation, introduce an interesting topic, and tell something new and interesting, a woman will understand that he is well-read and educated. If he is a literature lover, he’ll definitely impress a Russian lady.

Sensitivity. Apart from being confident and strong, a man should also have a kind heart. Men tend to be tough and usually they are afraid of demonstrating their sensitivity. That is why Russian women are attracted to those men who can find the right moment and time to reveal their tenderness trapped deep inside. Also, Russian women love when they are being heard. It is easy for them to tell when a man is pretending and when a man is genuinely interested in what she is talking about. Even if you don’t find the topics on which a Russian woman prefers to speak about to be interesting, you should not just sit there and pretend as if you are listening and go into your own thoughts during your conversations with her. It is important for a woman to see interest in the eyes of a loved one, to feel an emotional connection with him. In the end, the man himself can start a conversation on a fascinating topic, and a loving woman will certainly support him.

Courtesy. Russian girls look for a real gentleman who will treat them as if they were goddesses. He should be courteous not only to them because it’s a man can’t be called a gentleman if he respects his woman but behaves like a real jerk with others. Chivalry is not dead in Russia. Russian girls have seen since their childhood how their fathers and men around hold the doors to let women go first, help ladies take off their coats, and stand up when a woman enters a room, they expect the same from their potential partner.

Russian women want to be respected and will give respect in return. If a man treats a woman with respect, she will always appreciate it. An overly protective, indulgent attitude is often negatively perceived by women. The smarter and more interesting the lady is, the higher the value of respect is to her. Do you want your Russian girlfriend to feel respected? Then behave (and think) accordingly. The same goes for the most basic ways in which a man can express his care for a woman. It is always nice if a man remembers the day on which they met each other, the day of their first date or the first kiss and when he gives her lady her favorite flowers, and in general, remembers what she likes and what she doesn’t. Even the smallest signs of attention allow a woman to feel loved.

A sense of humor. The men who have a good sense of humor are always successful with women. It’s a very important talent or skill or whatever you call it. We must always look for the positive aspects of any situation. There are positive things about every bad situation and usually, they lie right on the surface in front of us. But human nature is such that in different situations we want to spill out our negative emotions, and not to look for positive aspects of the issue. If a man is able to turn his attention to the good aspects of the situation, then it no longer seems so negative to his girlfriend as well. Men must not worry about what happened, but seek a solution to the situation. Russian women are emotional beings, they love to spend their time by thinking of what has happened. From men, they expect sobriety and the ability to solve problems. If there was a failure - do not waste your time on regrets, you should immediately think about how to resolve this issue. And this a helpful trait even when there is no problem in sight. Russian women are attracted to the guys who can make them laugh. Humor has always been an excellent icebreaker and Russians know a thing a two about humor. It’s not appropriate to tell vulgar jokes on the first dates because these are great turn-offs (no matter how funny they are). Also, Russian girls want a man who will understand their jokes and irony.

Respect. Russian women need a man who will appreciate and respect them. They want to be respected not only who they are but also for their personal and professional achievements. Those men who can’t be glad for their women’s accomplishments have no chances of becoming the type she is looking for. A woman will never agree to be with a man who is not faithful to her and does not respect her. Many marriages fall apart precisely for this reason. Throughout the years, partners lose interest in each other and begin to focus only on the negative aspects of the partner’s character. From this, as you understand, nothing good comes out of. Not a single Russian woman that respects herself and her time will tolerate a lack of respect for herself.

Talent. Russian girls are more attracted to men who are talented in some way and who develop their talents. Women think that these men are more interesting and have a greater potential in life. If a man has a hobby or passion for something, he should demonstrate it to his woman to win her heart. A man should have a goal, like every normal person. Purposeless people are wasting their lives. A Russian woman will support her husband in everything he is good at, yet she will be especially fascinated by his work, if he is constantly filled with dedication to whatever he does.

Male Traits Russian Girls Dislike the Most

Russian women are open and straightforward. If they do not like your jealousy or absence of life goals — they will tell you the reason why they do not want to date you. There are some other traits that they cannot stand:


Russian men are strong and confident. If you cannot keep up with this image, you shouldn’t even try to seduce a Russian. This woman waits for you to take the initiative and stand up for her. There is nothing worse than male indecision.


If a man does not have his own business, which he loves and which brings him income, this is still a boy. Endless rushing about what to do and how to make money — this is an immature attitude. A woman who is in a relationship with such a man will have to be her own support


Women do not like men who do not take care of themselves. A man who does not care about his cleanliness and tidiness, what he wears, is a savage or a small child. A Russian woman will not be his compassionate mother because there can be no sexual feelings between the two in such a case.

What Russian Women Would Love to Find in Western Men

International weddings, especially when Russian girls marry foreigners, have long enjoyed immense popularity. This phenomenon dates back to the mid-1990s. Until the late 1990s, there was a rapid increase in the number of Russian girls marrying foreigners. The number of women under 30 was 60%, with an average age of 28. More than half of those who go abroad are women with higher education degrees. Russian girls are excellent wives for foreigners. They are beautiful, interesting and want to start a family and raise children. That’s why a Russian woman is the perfect soulmate for any man. Foreigners are very happy to marry these women, because they have a high cultural level, in their youth they are very beautiful, and also intelligent and hardworking. What are the types of men сhosen by Russian women?


Why is it so important for a man to be faithful? Because he will not leave after a petty or trivial quarrel, he will not cheat with the first person he meets, he will not leave his children or his wife in the name of a young beauty. Russians choose attentive and caring men. It is important for them that they are well looked after. Loyalty is about faithfulness and empathy. Being loyal is supporting instead of fighting for revenge.


For Russian women, it is important that their man is independent and courageous. A woman wants to feel protected.

Kind heart

Russians choose open and light-hearted men. A person must be not only handsome but have a wide soul. Kindness is patience and generosity. A generous man will never regret anything, he will give the last. But there is a "but" here: generosity can be mistaken for hypocrisy.


A strong man can do a lot: help rearrange furniture, fix a car or a house, protect his wife. Many believe that swollen muscles and biceps are an indicator of strength, but when a man cannot stand up for himself in the simplest everyday situations, it is not strength, but just a body to show, to get the attention of others.


Russians are more demanding than representatives of other nations when it comes to the qualities they look for in a man, their expectations are higher. Like all pretty girls, they dream of Prince Charming, a handsome young man who will love them and make their dream come true.

Mature or even significantly older

They do not object to living with a man who is 15 or 20 years older than them. Above all, they will feel a great excitement to come and live in a rich country and to enjoy all that they were deprived of when they were young; love will only come second.


She hasn't met you in person yet and only has a few pictures of you: she idealizes you. However, when a Russian writes to you that she is madly in love with you, she is sincere. She is really in love with this mysterious stranger, older than her, maybe not that pretty, and completely unfamiliar. If you are not ready to show the same level of emotionality, you will not understand Russians.


You have just had a little insight into the mentality of Russian women and their true character. Forget the clichés conveyed by the pseudo "merchants of happiness", many dating sites more concerned with extracting some money from you than whether you are really prepared to marry a Russian woman. If you really want to meet her, you will have to put all stereotypes aside.


To achieve a sincere and lasting union, it is not enough to buy a few addresses of Slavic women on the Internet and to have a charming young woman delivered to you. The success of a mixed couple depends on many elements. The first of them is a deep respect for your future Slavic wife, which requires a perfect knowledge of her expectations and the anticipation of her needs.

Comments (4)
Rafael Duncan
Slavic beauty conquers not only the catwalks, but also the hearts of the most enviable suitors. More and more Russian women are looking for foreign lovers using the Internet. I am glad that it is now so easy to meet them and fall in love! Thanks to the special platforms, you can always find your Russian beloved.
01.12.2020 14:24
Luther Haworth
I can say that Russian women do not like talkative men. A chatty man is good as a friend, not as a reliable life partner. The best female friend is gay. You can discuss everything with him. If a man spends all his energy on chatting, and there is no action, this is a friend.
01.12.2020 14:30
Caine Calhoun
The man is assessed through the prism of his actions. He thought about something, made a decision, and realized it. This does not mean that you shouldn’t inform a Russian woman about your actions — she needs to know everything, otherwise, she can be scared.
01.12.2020 14:31
If you think that Russian women are really what the dating clubs describe then you may be bitterly disappointed. If, on the other hand, you follow the few tips above then you will have every chance of succeeding in your new life as a couple, avoiding disappointments and pitfalls.
01.12.2020 14:38

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