Russian women are open and the same time reserved, passionate inside and cold from the outside. Such a dual nature of Slavic girls often makes foreign men puzzle their brains over the way of approaching Russian beauties and communicating with them successfully. Irrespective of whether you’ve just met a Russian girl or you’re already on a date with her, you may wonder what you should do and say in order to win her heart.
Those men who know what they want, have a purpose in life, and can demonstrate it without coming across as cheeky, will definitely interest a Russian woman. Confidence is something that women consider manly that is why they are subconsciously attracted to self-confident guys. However, Russian girls clearly distinguish between confident and overconfident or vain men. Once they see a guy is just boasting and showing off, they will turn him down, for sure.
Looking your interlocutor in the eyes means you’re listening carefully and you feel comfortable communicating with them. It’s totally inconceivable to chat with a girl simultaneously looking around and staring at other girls passing you by. Not only is this rude, but also she may feel embarrassed.
If you’re just approaching or already dating a Russian girl, make sure you are well-groomed and dressed when you’re with her. Russian women do everything to look their best on a daily basis and they want a neat man by their side. You have more chances to get a woman interested in you wearing a clean shirt and a nice jacket rather than sloppy T-shirt and baggy trousers. Also, use your cologne moderately. Even if you overdo with it, your nose will get used to it during the day but other people including a girl whom you approach will be suffocating near you.
Russian culture has the different perception of compliments. They value sincerity and any compliment has a shade of exaggeration. That is why if you really want to compliment a Russian woman, do it in the sincerest way. Since she hears those trite phrases about how beautiful she is almost every day, you should stand out from the crowd. Have a close look at her and try to find some special feature that is the most typical of her but not noticeable at first sight. If you’ve already noticed the most vivid trait of her character, tell her about it. The most important thing about compliments is their moderation; thus, don’t go too far bombing her with flattery.
People like to talk about themselves. Asking a Russian woman about her life, job, hobby, dreams, favorite pets, etc you’ll show her that you are really interested in her personality. That’s very important for women to feel that you care. Moreover, these questions will keep your conversation going in a relaxed fashion.
They say if a man gets a woman to smile, he is halfway to success. Indeed, Russian women like the men with a sense of humor. Jokes and humor are great when you need to relieve stress and create more easy-going atmosphere. Be careful: vulgar jokes will turn your woman off. On the contrary, witty and good-natured banter will do no harm.
Women appreciate it very much if a man listens to what they are saying very enthusiastically without interrupting. To show that you are really attentive, periodically ask her some questions concerning the points she touched upon. Not only you want to get her interested in you; she also wants to raise your interest in her. Don’t turn your conversation into a competition: who will outtalk whom. Control your speech and don’t talk endlessly without giving her an opportunity to chime in. On your part, be attentive to details and ask her during your next dates about something she told you but thought you wouldn’t remember. Prove to her that you were all ears.
Either it’s your first chat at all or a conversation on the first date, you shouldn’t talk for too long and tell everything at once. It is advisable to end your talk early knowing that she wants more. Tell her that you have to go and take her number. This way, you’ll make her wait for your next date or, actually, the first date with such an interesting person like you.